We’d like to thank everyone who contributed to this project. Over 130 young people across Victoria contributed their experiences, insights and suggestions on what they thought would help young Victorians like themselves.
This wellbeing toolkit responds to what you told us you needed, to make sense of your lives in 'COVID-normal' times. The resources here are for young people with varying degrees of exposure and vulnerability to COVID. Our intention is to not to suggest there’s one pathway out of the pandemic, but to let you put together the map that best suits you.
You’ve made it through the mass baking events, the lockdowns, and the mental health care walks. Now it’s 2022. What does this year even mean?
The answer: 2022 can be whatever you need it to be. Below, we’ve gathered some resources to help you shape your life for your needs, interests, concerns, or goals.
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If you’re looking for immediate practical support, we recommend visiting AskIzzy. AskIzzy connects you to over 400,000 different resources for a range of different needs and locations.
If you’d like to check the latest COVID-19 advice, visit the Victorian Government's Coronavirus website.
If you’re looking for advice on building—or rebuilding—your future, this section’s for you. It covers:
It can be hard to unplug from bad news—but it’s important to do, in order to care for your mental health. Here’s a guide on what you can do.
If you’re feeling anxious about ‘reentering society’, that’s normal. This article explains why you might be feeling anxious, and what might help.
Living with COVID-19 doesn’t have to look the same for everyone. This article provides information on ways of checking in with yourself, and how you can build your own normal.
Growing up is rarely straightforward—and there are reasons why. Professor Jeffrey Arnett explains why our models for adulthood are outdated, and different ways of thinking about what it means to ‘grow up’.
Some things aren’t taught. Luckily, Rob Kirney (a.k.a the internet’s dad) has put together a whole range of short videos on anything you’d ask a dad for help with, ranging from celebrating anniversaries to fixing running toilets.
How valid and useful are our traditional signs of adulthood? This article shares stories from a range of over-twenties on how ‘being an adult’ is very rarely a simple, static and time-bound experience.
A strong sense of wellbeing has many dimensions to it that go beyond daily rituals or one-off self care practices. We love this prompt to nurture our wellbeing by growing an intentional connection to body, community, nature and your spark.
Author and visual artist Jenny Odell talks about how technology and other systems are affecting our attention and happiness, why it’s important to slow down, and how you can reclaim your time.
It’s easier to achieve your goals when you have the right structures and expectations in place. Youtuber Rowena Tsai takes you through how you can set yourself up.
The view from the top is different. In this video, three centenarians talk about what they’ve learned about life, love, happiness and wholeness, and the advice they’d share.
This article from UK website Patient talks you through why you might be feeling anxious about the future post-pandemic, and how to cope.
When a career-ending injury changed elite athlete Lewis Howes’ life, he had to pivot. He now speaks to some of the most inspiring people on the planet on how they found their way forward, on his podcast.
The team at Kids Helpline explain why you might be feeling anxious, what your anxiety might look like, and how you can take care of yourself.
If you’re finding it hard not to catastrophise or fear the future, this video can help. It explains how past traumas (including traumas of the recent past) can affect your ability to see the future optimistically.
It can be hard to know what a ‘sustainable career’ is—or the right way to create one. This section covers:
Nervous about an upcoming interview? This webpage from Kids Helpline will help you prepare with some common questions, considerations and tips for success.
Getting your first job offer is only the beginning. Here’s a few things you might want to consider before you start your first day at the office.
If you’ve been working from home throughout the pandemic, the return to in-person work might take some adjustment. Here’s a set of strategies from Beyond Blue on adapting to a ‘COVID-normal’ workplace.
It’s good to know your legal rights at work. Youth Law Australia collects information on a range of employment topics — and if you’re under 25, can also provide you with free legal advice.
For those who would prefer to talk their career plan through, there’s Headspace’s online mentorship program. Headspace will match you with a mentor based on your work interests, so you can get an insider’s view on your dream job.
Trying to figure out what career’s right for you? This quiz can help you figure out what path to get on – and the course to get you there.
Want to learn more about managing your money? There’s no better place to start than the Australian Government’s Moneysmart website. Designed for Australians of all ages, Moneysmart can take you through money management methods, debt reduction strategies, and can link you to free financial counselling.
If you’re more of an aural learner, financial planner Azaria Bell has you covered. Her podcast, gen z money, provides under-24 year olds with advice on managing their money, considering investments, and setting money goals.
Season six of the Pineapple Project steps you through making smart money choices - whether they’re considering buying clothes, smartphones, or treats for their pet. (It’s worth listening back through the podcast’s five other seasons as well, which talk about connection, mortality, and hygiene, among other things!)
It should be normal to think about, and talk about, money in a relationship. You, Me & Money provides young couples with the tools, strategies and information to have the right conversations.
Right now, only 35% of women feel confident about their money. MoneyGirl is one of several initiatives looking to change that. A financial literacy social enterprise, it aims to empower women in money matters by providing them with free courses and blog posts aimed at empowering women in money matters.
Something missing? Try this article from JusticeConnect, which covers information on financial support that might be available to you post COVID-19.
There’s never been a better time to grow your ability to advocate and care for yourself. This section covers advice on a range of topics, including:
What does being happy look like — and how do we get there? In this podcast, Dan Harris talks to meditation teachers, scientists, and celebrities about how they’ve built and worked to sustain their happiness, and what they’ve learnt along the way.
Emotional pain mightn’t be visible — but it needs to be properly cared for. Psychologist Guy Winch talks about the importance of taking care of your heart, and the seven techniques you should stock your emotional first-aid kit with.
As Kids Helpline puts it, H R U? Is a podcast that ‘puts the mic in your hands’. You’ll hear from young people, just like you, on topics like peer pressure, navigating finance, identity or work-related stress. Episodes are also released weekly – so there’ll always be a new idea to explore.
The hosts of How can I say this know what it’s like to feel lost for words. That’s why they’ve started a podcast, dedicated to providing advice on holding tricky conversations, like when you need to apologise but don’t know how, want to avoid conflict during family gatherings, or want to broach difficult feelings.
As radio host and author Celeste Headlee sees it, we could all be having more meaningful conversations. In this TED Talk, she presents us with ten ways we can speak—and listen—better.
For introverts, socialising can be a nightmare. In this TED Talk, Kaspars Breidaks suggests a couple of ways introverts can break through their social barriers and feel freer to be themselves in public.
Ever struggle with a situation or your mental health, and wish there was someone out there who could help you get through? Growing Resilience is here for you. The program provides Australians with access to six one-hour Zoom mentoring sessions, in which you’ll grow your self-care skills, your emotional awareness, and importantly, your ability to understand and move through hardship.
Your future shouldn’t be defined by others. YACVic’s Map Your Future aims to empower people with disabilities, by providing them with the tools and information to set their own goals for their future, get support, and advocate for their own needs.
In the past, ‘men connecting with their feelings’ wasn’t a phrase you’d ever hear. The Man Cave’s looking to change that. Their website provides advice on holding sensitive conversations, checking in with yourself, and getting more emotionally savvy.
Looking for quick reference guides on advocating for yourself? The Aged and Disability Advocates (ADA) Australia organisation have got you covered. Also available in Easy English.
If you’ve felt a little lost or lonely these past few years, you’re not alone. The good news is that no matter your unique identity, there’ll be a community perfect for you. (Most communities meet both in-person and virtually.) The below sections lists community groups and events:
A free, private and confidential social platform for 13–25 year olds across Australia, MyCircle lets you talk to other people your age going through similar challenges. A team of KidsHelpline-trained moderators also drop in from time to time with tips on managing emotions and the-day-to-day.
The Drum runs programs and events for young people in Victoria inclusive of young people from all genders, religions, cultural and identity backgrounds.
Therapy can be scary. That’s why Headspace has taken to doing online group chats – where you get the opportunity to ask a therapist your questions, or communicate your thoughts, on a specific issue. You have the option to download past transcripts, or to register for upcoming events.
Beyond Blue’s young people forums provide people aged between 12–15 with a safe space to discuss their lives, challenges, and routes to happiness.
ReachOut has built a unique online tool that prompts you to check in on yourself daily, before you engage with interest and challenge-focused forums. ReachOut’s team also pop in at regular points, to offer advice, feedback and information.
Fancy picking up a new hobby? Laneway Learning’s got you covered. These online and in-person classes aren’t specific to young people, but who says you can’t make friends or connections across different generations?
Koorie Youth Council is the representative body for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander young people in Victoria. They host events and opportunities to connect with other young people from your community.
Deadly Story is a resource for Aboriginal children and young people to connect with culture. We’ve linked to a section of their website with a regularly updated calendar of events hosted by Aboriginal-led organisations in Victoria or online.
3KND Radio is Melbourne’s first Indigenous owned radio station, offering Aboriginal & Torres Strait Islander community members an opportunity to share their experiences, concerns, perspectives and information with the wider community.
The Rainbow Directory connects LGBTQIA+ young people to the services, groups and events they’re after. It also provides parents and carers with resources on caring for LGBTQIA+ patients or relatives.
InVisible is a youth-led program, that connects queer, trans and intersex people of colour who live in Naarm/the city of Melbourne. InVisible also runs useful workshops for its queer community, ranging from understanding employment rights to baking cupcakes.
Queerspace provides training, low-cost counselling and resources for the LGBTQIA+ community. It’s also well-connected to a range of other queer health and wellbeing services – so if it’s not right for you, the Queerspace team will know who to point you towards.
Livewire recognises that being ill shouldn’t be synonymous with being alone. This vibrant online community connects young people who are living with illness, and their siblings, to others just like them, whether it’s through online forums or through playing games.
I CAN recognises the abilities of everyone. It runs mentoring programs for autistic people, led by autistic people, in addition to professional development workshops.
Little Dreamers cares for the young carers: the people aged between 4-25, who primarily focus on caring for someone with a disability, illness, or who’s struggling with old age. They can link you through to programs focused on boosting your wellbeing or employability, or just provide with the support and community you need.
Deaf Children Australia have put together a program of IRL and online events for young people who are deaf or hard of hearing, and their families.
From Footscray Community Arts, ArtLife is a program for people with disability who have an interest in art and creativity. This program features workshops and opportunities to meet people. It is open to people aged 18 and over.
COPMI makes navigating mental illness a little easier for families, by providing parents with invaluable information on why mental health matters and what they can do to help their children– or themselves. COPMI’s resources are also translated into a range of languages – so it’s accessible for every family.
A not-for-profit organisation based in Victoria, the Centre for Multicultural Youth provides opportunities and support to young people from migrant and refugee backgrounds. They host events and programs allowing multicultural young people to connect with others and develop skills.
With over twenty-six thousand members and the backing of the Victorian Government, this online space is a great space for the international student community in Victoria to meet and connect with like-minded people.
The Fitzroy Learning Network is a not-for-profit organisation supporting refugees, migrants, asylum seekers and those living on the public housing estates of inner Melbourne. It offers young people ways to enhance their lives and meet new people, including through education and community programs.
The Afri-Aus Care organisation works to address mental health taboos within African and other Culturally and Linguistically Diverse (CALD) communities. We’ve linked to their peer support and community engagement programs that provide a chance to connect with new people.
‘Connect, inform and inspire’ is the tagline of AIYA, a youth-led organisation that hosts events centred on Indonesian culture in Victoria.
If you’re of Muslim faith, but are also struggling with your mental health, this initiative could help. Six Degrees is a program for young Muslim people in Melbourne aimed at creating a safe space for Muslims to discuss mental health.
The Australian South Asian Centre runs Community programs and provides resources for South Asian women in Australia.
You don’t have to take care of your mental health on your own. There are plenty of free and government-subsided resources that can help you make sense of and address what you’re experiencing, whether you’re feeling anxious, afraid, or another feeling that’s hard to define.
If you’re not feeling safe right now, please reach out. Feelings are never final. Call Lifeline on 13 11 44 for over-the-phone support, while if you prefer text conversations, 7CupsofTea can provide non-judgemental support from a stranger. If life is in immediate danger, call 000.
A mental health care plan also provides you with 20 subsidised therapy sessions. For more information, click here.
13 11 14
24/7 telephone crisis support. This is a confidential service providing support to anyone in Australia who is feeling overwhelmed, having difficulty coping or thinking about suicide.
1800 551 800
Private and confidential 24/7 phone counselling service for children and young people in Australia aged 5 to 25.
1800 595 212
Mental health support hotline for Victorians of all ages. Open 8.30am–5pm, Monday–Friday (except public holidays)
1800 512 348
24/7 telephone support service providing immediate, short-term counselling and advice for those feeling worried or struggling to cope during the coronavirus pandemic.
1800 650 890
If you’re aged between 12-25, Headspace lets you speak privately with a professional counsellor. It’s a safe space if you want some advice, unsure of what help you need or maybe just want to talk things through.
1800 184 527
Australia-wide anonymous, LGBTI peer support and referral for people wanting to talk about a range of issues including sexuality, identity, gender, bodies, feelings or relationships. 3pm–Midnight, 7 days a week.
1800 959 563
A 24/7 confidential counselling phone service for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander Peoples. Yarning SafeNStrong is available to people and families who need to have a yarn with someone about their wellbeing.
24/7 crisis support webchat. Lifeline's support service is available via confidential online chat. Anyone in Australia can chat to a trained Crisis Supporter.
If you can't get to a phone or prefer to chat online, you can connect one-on-one with a Kids Helpline counsellor through WebChat.
24/7 webchat providing one-on-one mental health support for people in Australia who are concerned about anxiety, depression or suicide.
eHeadspace lets you chat privately with a professional counsellor. It’s a safe space for if you want some advice, are unsure of what help you need, or potentially just want to talk things through.
Run by ReachOut, PeerChat lets you talk to a peer worker who has experience with mental health challenges as a young person. They’ve been on their own journey to recovery and use their experience to support others.
QLife is an Australia-wide anonymous, LGBTI peer support and referral for people wanting to talk about a range of issues including sexuality, identity, gender, bodies, feelings or relationships.
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Who can I talk to about ongoing support with my mental health?
Your GP can help you get access to a Mental Health Treatment Plan, which subsidises the cost of any sessions you have with a mental health care professional. For more information on Mental Health Treatment Plans, visit healthdirect.
If you’re struggling and need more than therapy — store-bought support is more than fine. Your GP can also help you get access to medication.
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How can I get better at asking for help?
It can be difficult to ask for help. It’s a skill that needs to be practiced — but over time, advocating for your needs can get easier and easier.
Try and check in with your friend/family/trusted adult ahead of time. By letting them know you need their help, either through text or just in passing, you’ll have prepared them on what to expect. Then, when you’re both in the room, ensure you get the chance to detail the entirety of what you need help with before.
You can ask for help in the lightest of situations — like wanting help deciphering COVID-19 information — or in the most complex.
Avoid providing an ‘opt out’ at the end of a request, as well. (For example, don’t close off a request by saying ‘but you don’t have to do x if you don’t have the time.) While it’s easy to do, standing by your needs and requests is a way of advocating for yourself.
For more on growing your self-resilience and advocacy, go here.
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How up-to-date do I need to keep with world news?
It’s honestly up to you. If you feel like you’re doomscrolling, it’s worth stepping away from social media or your news feed. It’s more important to protect your mental health than it is to stay up-to-date.
Podcasts like the Guardian’s Full Story and Schwartz Media’s 7am can also help you stay up-to-date, without being overwhelming.
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How do I know which media outlets are reliable and trustworthy?
Ask yourself these three questions:
If you answered ‘yes’, ‘yes’, and ‘no’, it’s a pretty good sign that what you’re reading is trustworthy. It can be hard to spot fake news or misinformation, but thinking critically about why a news story has been developed and how it’s been constructed can help you avoid fake news.
It’s always worth getting a second opinion from a friend or trusted adult, as well.
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How up-to-date do I need to keep with health news?
It’s up to you.
If you feel like daily updates aren’t helpful or practical, you don’t need to read or watch daily updates. If you’re concerned and want to stay informed, the Victorian Government’s Coronavirus website can be helpful.
Significant changes in Victoria’s public health approach will be widely broadcast — so if things change, you’ll be informed.
What are some resources/services we've missed that you access that help improve your mental health and wellbeing?